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		<title>Indulgilicious</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Jul 2011 04:30:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Came across this really inspiring post on OpenCoffeeClub. A couple of college (hostel) girls and their tryst with entrepreneurship. This is the story of two students in University of Delhi. Happy studying Statistics and Literature with bit monotony was their life. &#8216;A&#8217; was really passionate about cakes and chocolates. She could bump into any bakers [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Came across this really inspiring post on <a href="http://www.opencoffeeclub.in/blogs/127/28/indulgilicious">OpenCoffeeClub</a>. A couple of college (hostel) girls and their tryst with entrepreneurship.</em></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">This is the story of two students in University of Delhi. Happy studying Statistics and Literature with bit monotony was their life. &#8216;A&#8217; was really passionate about cakes and chocolates. She could bump into any bakers at any hour of the day. It was the only thing she cooked with lots of grace while she was at home. And &#8216;S&#8217;, her dearest friend loved experimenting and encouraging ideas. &#8216;A&#8217; baptized her virtual Bakers store as <strong>“</strong><strong>Indulgilicious</strong><strong>”</strong> with the slightest idea of this coming true. Then comes A’s cousin, the enthusiastic, the illumination and an entrepreneur. &#8216;A&#8217; blabbered her dreams (Indulgilicious) to him, which would have happened sometime in the future she was not sure about. But her cousin, so like himself, became really serious about the whole thing and they had a long discussion on the same issue. &#8216;A&#8217; was big time inspired and full on motivated. Then what?<span id="more-979"></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">She chucked an internship at a high profile Mathematical institute, lost every chance of recommendation by them, then blown by friends and so on. &#8216;A&#8217; told &#8216;S&#8217; about the whole scene and &#8216;S&#8217; was very supportive, encouraging and even more excited than &#8216;A&#8217; and promised to be an equal partner in the new business which did not exist. It was 27<sup>th</sup> Feb 2011 and the idea commenced.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Guys, I am talking about nobody else but Anchal (myself) and Shagun, from the neighboring hostel and a friend since graduation (we are post graduates nowJ).</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Unbelievable it was! I and Shagun sat the next afternoon to plan out things including the recipe, dishes, etc. None of us were aware of business techniques, so please excuse my non technical writing here. Out for shopping, no money, weird plans, nothing on papers&#8230;. we bought every ingredient and dishes required. Fortunately my hostel had a microwave, so things seemed to be easier.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">PN: We paid extra 12.5% at every store to get the bills. We were loyal to our customers as well as government rules. Second morning of March on the Shiv Ratri, we baked our first cake as a trial. Trust me, I was shit scared but Shagun was optimistic about the taste. And, the taste turned out to be awesome&#8230; BUT&#8230;. the cake was as hard as a stone. I was very depressed but Shagun was in good spirits and then we realised that the microwave we had used didn&#8217;t have the &#8220;Convection&#8221; mode which is used to bake cakes. Let me list a few more problems we had faced:</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">&nbsp;</p>
<ol style="text-align: justify;">
<li>We planned to buy an      OTG, and checked Tata Croma and finalised the model. But we didn&#8217;t get      permission from the hostel authorities to keep an electrical appliance.</li>
<li>Renting a flat was the      next idea. Though expensive, we still had to stick to this because there      was no other way. Grishma supported with financial help.</li>
<li>Getting in touch with      property dealers and assuring electricity and water throughout the day was      really tough.</li>
<li>Meanwhile, our friend      Shweta came up with the idea of baking in a cooker. Awesome idea, we      bought a cooker too.</li>
<li>Hotplates in hostel      could have been used but the regulator was not working.</li>
<li>We sneaked in a gas      cylinder in Shagun&#8217;s hostel room finally to carry on with our plan.</li>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">We also bought chart papers and colours from Nayi Sadak, Chandni Chowk, sim card, mobile handset (borrowed from a cousin). We made teasers by 10th of March but we had to slow down because of my mid semester exams and my parents trip to delhi and then further delay on account of Anna Hazare&#8217;s fast which was supported by Shagun. Came 8th April, when we had put up the teasers on the under graduate hostel boards with the help of Puja and Rashmi. Messages started buzzing in on our new number. People were pepped about the name&#8230; then we had put the posters, we covered all undergraduate college hostels of DU in North Campus.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Then happened something which none of us had expected&#8230;.. Calls started coming for orders. God, calls after calls&#8230;. we became too busy overnight. We also made a delivery at 6am for a Stephen’s girl. Amazing time it was, we managed to cover the entire cost we had incurred&#8230;&#8230;From buying stuff to taking calls, baking cakes to washing utensils, managing stock to delivering cakes and to handling finance and so on was done by me and Shagun. In all probability we have put our final semester exams on stake here, we await the results.<br />
Colour code followed by us was PURPLE and SILVER. We made cake boxes using purple-silver handmade papers.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>The idea behind Indulgilicious was simple; we aimed at HOSTELERS who wanted homemade cakes to be delivered at their doorsteps @ reasonable price. It was a pain that we ourselves felt being out of home in a hostel world for years. We were successful in delivering the same and feedback from most of them delighted us, this motivated us to continue working.<br />
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After the initial stint, constraints like finance, space and an end to college life stopped us from continuing the same. As of today I am working with an analytical company now and saving money every month to come back with a bang. Shagun is likely to start preparation for civil services exams.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Last few months made us learn a lot in terms of organising, planning, time management, firefighting, jugaad etc. Those really were the most adventurous days of our life. We promise to come again and serve the hostellers to re-live our 5 years of hostel life &#8230; forever.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Waiting for the dream to come true soon&#8230;.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Anchal &amp; Shagun<br />
IndulgiliciouS</p>
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		<title>Innocent, Little</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Sep 2010 20:05:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Annkur</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are times I wish this was an anonymous blog. There is so much I want to share and yet I fear its too early to share. Today happens to be a day when I decide to unfold a little of past. A little of me. My about page speaks less of who I am [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><em><strong>There are times I wish this was an anonymous blog. There is so much I want to share and yet I fear its too early to share. Today happens to be a day when I decide to unfold a little of past. A little of me. My <a href="http://annkur.com/about/">about page</a> speaks less of who I am and though its meant to be so, here is a little something that I feel necessary to share.</strong></em><span id="more-839"></span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Its not a secret that I started working right out of school at the age of 15 and that partly explains my bonding and feeling for young entrepreneurs (heck, any one who is starting up). When I started as a school kid selling stuff over Baazee (now eBay), there was a good offline connect to it. I had to source the good from the local market, market them online, get the orders and then pack and ship it out myself. I can be certain that I have learnt more being a eBay Power Seller than what I learnt in 5 years of college. Interacting with 000s of online shoppers across India, across different states, speaking different accents, I feel I have also been a mini call center <em>marketer</em> myself. While <a href="http://in.linkedin.com/in/ankurpagarwal">my LinkedIn profile</a> proudly claims that its passion that drives me and the love for gadgets / technology / silicon chips that pushed me to do things right from retail to media, it really didn&#8217;t start that way. It developed over time. The single most influential driver for me to startup was Money. Yes Money. I wanted more money to spend than I would have ever got as pocket money and I wanted to buy small luxuries for myself that I couldn&#8217;t have afforded without earning it myself. Add to that a little of love for gizmos that excited me. My journey begins&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Walking down the lanes of Manish market and dealing with the most &#8216;<em>badnam</em>&#8216; dealers in Mumbai is a tough training for a 16 yr old kid (in 2003). I always thought that I was lucky to get started with a relation in this market, but then I could see the roots of this in my upbringing. I was brought up in a somewhat pampered environment but at the same time with a lot of discipline (don&#8217;t mistake that for organized, I am more messy than an average hostel kid at IIT). Honesty was drilled into me, but then when a 15 year old starts business, you know money pulls you the other way? <img src='http://annkur.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  I see so many people around me start with business today and it at times hurt me to see the kind of manipulation or shortcut they take. I don&#8217;t really blame them for that, I have seen hints of these in me, and may be I got lucky with the right people teaching me the right things at the right time. It isn&#8217;t hard to stick to values when in business, its just that the other path looks so much easier.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I remember attending a talk by some CXO of Shoppers Stop at Raheja college during my 1st yr of BMS. This is where I picked up a great learning. Something that remains with me still. He spoke about &#8216;having real feeling for your customer, being there to serve them&#8217;. And after that day, perhaps the <em>innocent, little</em> kid in me was clear on what business he wants to do. How he wants to be at business&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Some of my best teachers / friends / inspiration have been people whom I got close to while selling them some thing. I might be a poor business guy when it comes to profit making. Some say I do business to make loss, but when it comes to winning a customer, I rate myself A+. Here my friends I want to highlight the power of true feelings and honesty. At my work I have to deal with a number of dealers, retailers, service providers, institutes and students. I meet all of them with a similar clean approach. This might not always give me a deal that I want, but what it gives me is two very crucial things a) people who value you as an individual b) a silent confidence in your dealings that cannot be challenged.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">The path I am encouraging you to walk may not always be easy friends. You got to be unreasonable at times. Last year out of the blue  I received a hate mail from someone who had transacted with me back in 2005. According to him I had cheated him back then  (he hadn&#8217;t received the product he ordered) and I could see his emails written to me when I was 18 &#8230; they were some of the finest abuses someone has every sent me.  (A mild version of those below.) I had chosen to discontinue a dialogue with him back then, but he came back 4 yrs later and this is the best I could do for him. Send him a digital camera to make up for his loss. The response I receive at the end of it, is something that drives priceless energy into me.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://annkur.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/ven-email-superstores.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-841" title="ven-email-superstores" src="http://annkur.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/ven-email-superstores.jpg" alt="" width="489" height="138" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">&nbsp;</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://annkur.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/ven-true-indian.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-850" title="ven true indian" src="http://annkur.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/ven-true-indian-600x125.jpg" alt="" width="495" height="103" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I might not yet be a 100%, but I am still hurt to see young ones around me with this &#8216;quick money&#8217; thinking. I can smell it in young business men very often. Its not that I want to prove you wrong, its not that I hate you, its just that I feel you are meant to do big things. Create huge empires and make a real difference and all this maintaining your values. The value of being a human, one to another! How about getting into a business conversation next time with an aim to give a honest 100%? Working to meet the needs of the one you serve before you serve yourself?</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://annkur.com/2008/12/my-wish-plz-see-it-twice-video/"><strong>Also see:</strong> My Wish<br />
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		<title>V&#8217;s experimentation with colours!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Aug 2010 10:51:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Annkur</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This blog is all about me, my views. The only room until today for anyone to express themselves is in the comments section. But here is an exception. A dear friend and one of the finest people in the tech circles that I move around in is Mr Vivek K &#38; here is a gem [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This blog is all about me, my views. The only room until today for anyone to express themselves is in the comments section. But here is an exception.</p>
<p>A dear friend and one of the finest people in the tech circles that I move around in is Mr Vivek K &amp; here is a gem from V!<span id="more-823"></span></p>
<blockquote><p><strong>My experiments with Colors.</strong></p>
<p>Life ain’t fair. Neither am I.  On numerous occasions in the past 23  years, I have reminded myself of this statement.  I am 23 years old.  I  have lived in Jaipur,Delhi,Mumbai and Pune.  I belong to a middle class  family.  I am studying pure sciences.  I am working in technology  startup.  I have a great social circle.  I am also a LEO.  And yes, I  have a “fairly” dark complexion.  The last line adds a pinch of black to  the entire picture. I say it form my experiences, that the  world has 2  kinds of people – The Dark one’s (<a href="http://www.facebook.com/vivek.khandelwal">like me</a>)– and the  not so dark one’s.- This includes the whites (all shades), the browns,  wheatish, and my lighter shades.  It’s a different world altogether when  looked from the eyes of a black skinned person. I will share some of my  experiences – some good, some bad.</p>
<p>Considering that my grandfather is no more, I am probably the darkest  soul in my family – both Paternal and Maternal, when it comes to color.  I studied in 4 schools- Adarsh Vidya Mandir – Sirohi, St Paul School –  Sirohi, Seedling Public School – Jaipur and Maheshwari Public School,  Jaipur – and without fail I was the darkest student in all the classes.  So the TAG – blacky came naturally to me.  I have collected some very  funny names all this while. Here are some of my favorites – Invisible  After Sunlight (IAS), Kallu (klue,callu,klu), Kalia (<em>I wish I was  born in the Pre Sholay Era</em>), Nigger, Nigero, Nigga, African, kalz,  kalua. Lara and Black Mamba are the latest addition to the list.</p>
<p>It was probably in 3<sup>rd</sup> standard I had my last fight with a  guy who was 10 may be 15 “shades lighter than me” regarding one of  those above names. I had almost killed him.  I gave up after that.  I  realized that I was no hulk who could beat them all or Abraham  Lincoln/Nelson Mandela who could not teach the world a lesson about  Racism.  I decided to give up – Give up on every single remark ever made  about my complexion. <em>(The world complexion sounds very “Britsh but –  The place where I belong to, people like calling it Color. It sounds  even better in when called “Rang”. )</em></p>
<p>I don’t know if I should blame my color – or the color of the fairer  breed or the era when I was a student or Sholay or may be the city where  I lived – I could never gather the confidence to go on stage.  The only  memory I have of going on stage was for a fancy dress competition where  I was dressed as a joker – yes they painted me all white. The only time  I ever went on stage after that was on my 16<sup>th</sup> Birthday  because all the birthday boys (I did my +2 from a boys school) were  given a Birthday Card on stage.</p>
<p>Along with my color came the limited range of colors I could choose  to pick my clothes. 3 shades of blue, 2 shades of green and anything  that is Grey, yes that’s all you would find in my cup board. For me the  color palette was always limited to Grey- Green-Blue. I always use to  wonder why the costume designer in Telgu Films got orange shirts and red  pants designed – Was he genuinely serious? Or did we miss the humor?</p>
<p>At this point I would like to introduce my family. Since I am the  darkest one in my family, the entire family tried every possible  fairness cream – Fair and Lovely, Garnier, Ponds, The_Cream_From_Dubai,  even Amway. By the time I reached 8<sup>th</sup> standard, I revolted.  Then came the desi products – Besan, Multani Mitti. But as you can see,  nothing literally nothing seemed to work on me.  My family gave up  against God’s wish of maintaining my dark color. Though the odd phone  calls and advice about the_new_cream_of_vaseline come in till date.  I  could sense that their concern for my skin getting a shade or two  lighter was absolutely valid – They probably believed that even if hell  would break loose no “fair” bride would accept a black groom. At the age  of 13 there is very little that I could do. I retained my stand.  Actually, I had no options.</p>
<p>By this time I had my first crush in school. It took me over 10 years  to confess it to her. Back in 8<sup>th</sup>, I had assumed that black  guys are destined to die single. Who in this world would fall for a  black guy leave apart marrying him? My faith in my assumption was so  strong that the thought of talking to the girl never crossed my mind.  Though the circle I hanged out with had a lot of girls but I believe  they were all friends with me because they thought I was “too safe”.  Around the same time a cousin of mine introduced me to Sidney Sheldon. I  picked up on reading. After reading 3 of those novels and confirming  with my cousin I had assured myself that the jargon – Tall Dark and  Handsome was a valid term and had no sarcasm attached. Though I  continued to be skeptical about its validity in city I was living.</p>
<p>I was academically superior than a lot of my batch mates – probably  that was the reason people did have some respect for me. Or wait it  might have been pity also – You never know.  As my school came to an end  – thanks to everything around me – events, people, friends and family  and my color – I had developed a shell around myself . The world I lived  in had very few people – handpicked people who never thought twice  before talking to a black guy.  My color and not my potential had  decided limits for me.</p>
<p>Life moved on but my color did not. Probably I was enjoying being  black – it added an element of distinctness to me.  I could be  identified with ease in a crowd. While this  feature at times can be  quiet helpful, it can prove to be detrimental at times.  For instance in  a class of 150 students – the professor would be able to recall your  face distinctly and can ask you awkward questions during the exam -” I  didn’t see you after the first week of the semester, where have you been  ?” For most of my friends, I invented “Black Humor”.  Now I believe  that I did.  With college almost coming to an end, I don’t think I have  to take more of this. I want to believe that my color is behind me but  something inside tells me that the worst is yet to come. I have always  had these questions intriguing me -</p>
<p>Why is black equivalent to being dangerous/bad/ugly ?</p>
<p>Why would they sit next to the white guy on the bus even if seat next  to me is empty ?</p>
<p>Is having a dark complexion such a taboo ?</p>
<p>What is it with the fair skin that attracts all of you ?</p>
<p>Why do people frown when they see me with a fairer girl ?</p>
<p>Why can’t you love the dusky girl in your class but keep stating at  bipasha basu’s wallpaper ?</p>
<p>By the way, the date on my computer screen is 15th Aug.  Are we  really free ?</p>
<p>P.S</p>
<p>We live in a country obsessed with Fair Color. The fairness and  beauty product market as trends have it is close to 2500 CRORES.   These  are times when Sharukh Khan wants to get fairer by using fair and  handsome, John Abraham needs Garnier Fairness Cream to impress a dusky  beauty and Shahid Kapoor spends one minute on his Fairness. (CAN YOU  BEAT THAT – ONE ENTIRE MINUTE !! ).  We also live in times when every  girl in the US wants to meet the tall, dark and handsome  <a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/OldSpice#">OLD Spice Man.</a> Quiet an  interesting era -isn’t it ?</p>
<p><a href="http://roomno368.com/2010/08/15/my-experiments-with-colors/">Originally posted on Room No 368 &#8211; By Vivek Khandelwal</a></p></blockquote>
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		<title>&#8220;1st email&#8221; LoL memories pulled out of the trunk</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 12:42:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[{This is a status update of visit we made for a college project during BMS days in Bhavans. Shaun just sent this back to me and just couldn&#8217;t resist sharing this with the rest of the word. Bachmates from Bhavans would surely understand this better} &#8212;&#8212;&#8211; 22-8-2005 From ANkur Agarwal to Tassavur Shaikh (Toxic) Ok [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;">{This is a status update of visit we made for a college project during BMS days in Bhavans. Shaun just sent this back to me and just couldn&#8217;t resist sharing this with the rest of the word. Bachmates from Bhavans would surely understand this better}</p>
<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8211; <span style="color: #ff0000;">22-8-2005 From ANkur Agarwal to Tassavur Shaikh (Toxic)</span></p>
<p><strong>Ok Officer !!</strong><br />
I shall give you a briefing of wht we faced so far in the war ground of Materials Management.<br />
We moved forward to the Creative Motors Fort in Andheri.</p>
<p>We attacked their Service Center. BUt we came to know that their leader (mr Kamlesh Shah) is hiding in the showoom.</p>
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<p>So we marched forward in our hired tanks (rikshaws) towards the Creative Motors  showroom in Andheri Itself.</p>
<p>We spotted Mr Kamlesh and holded him at gunpoint. He was talking on a wireless communication device (Probably calling in reinforcements)<br />
He recognized me and surrendered. We had a conferene with him in his hideout (also known as cabin) and layed down numerous demands and requested lots of ancient artifacts (Slips and documents) which were very important to us. He was very cooperative here on (probably frightened after seeing 4 of us together).</p>
<p>He promised to handover the requested artifacts within 24 hours and so he did. Our brave knight Sir Samie III also received a special gift from their showroom (a concessional rate for Hero honda CBZ*  with finance).<br />
The very next day we divided the artifacts and started to work on it. Kim was sent a copy of those for special study by AIRMAIL (Courier) and she mailed us her reports and findings ( Ecopies ) of the same. We then had a brief meeting where we met our lethal weapon TOXIC ( ya he takes a whole week to recharge himself and then shows up once in a week &#8212; much like me). .. and you know what happened after that.</p>
<p>Here I take the privilege to mail you all the Findings and research we did on the artifacts &#8212; which although of a bit low quality is attached.<br />
THE SPECIMEN of our victory note and improvement steps is being attached &#8211; it is to be considered by you for your views and special comments.</p>
<p>Over and OUT<br />
<strong>Major General ANkur Agarwal<span id="more-793"></span><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-799" title="Cover-Apge" src="http://annkur.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Cover-Apge.jpg" alt="" width="454" height="713" /></strong></p>
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<p>ps: Yes back then I didn&#8217;t knew the difference between Hero Honda and Honda <img src='http://annkur.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Face to Face conversations</title>
		<link>http://annkur.com/2010/02/face-to-face-conversations/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Feb 2010 09:30:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[//incomplete An email titled: Study Shows High ROI on Face-to-Face Meetings While this was some newsletter sent to marketing / sales junta &#38; I don&#8217;t even need to open the thing and read it.  The idea is pretty clear: no matter how much you rely on IM, FB, Twitter &#8211; fact remains that nothing replaces [...]]]></description>
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<p>An email titled: Study Shows High ROI on Face-to-Face Meetings</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">While this was some newsletter sent to marketing / sales junta &amp; I don&#8217;t even need to open the thing and read it.  The idea is pretty clear: no matter how much you rely on IM, FB, Twitter &#8211; fact remains that nothing replaces Face to Face conversations. And I strongly seek that value in any relationship. I have attempted hard at times to keep up with my contacts and as far as possible I would race the bike to meet up in person. Again that has some relevance with the <a href="http://annkur.com/2009/01/ankurs-friend-matrix/">Friend Matrix</a> (sorry, a lot of things for me revolve around that, in a sublime manner though); though I fear I won&#8217;t be able to describe very effectively but <a href="http://annkur.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/conversations.jpg">here is an attempt</a>.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">Anyways, when I asked <a href="http://annkur.com/2009/12/are-we-friends/">Are we friends?</a> the keyword stressed was TRUST. Making yourself available for a face 2 face meeting in many ways comes under that. (If I am avoiding a meet, that certainly means lack of trust!)&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><strong>Update</strong>: <a href="http://www.facebook.com/note.php?note_id=302260587809&amp;comments">Comments on this piece on Facebook&#8230; really takes the discussion forward</a></p>
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		<title>Interesting conversation #entrepreneurship #innovation #startup</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2009 08:42:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[@arpit105 and @ankeshk had a great conversation going on Twitter the other day. With the awesome two discussing brainy business stuff, this makes a good read! so here Is the chat with some of my tweets thrown in the mix. read on&#8230; arpit105: &#8220;Good enough tech&#8221; Awesome article! http://tinyurl.com/ljsy2c (via @ankeshk @annkur) annkur: @arpit105 @ankeshk [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@arpit105 and @ankeshk had a great conversation going on Twitter the other day. With the awesome two discussing brainy business stuff, this makes a good read! so here Is the chat with some of my tweets thrown in the mix. read on&#8230;<span id="more-709"></span></p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #808000;">arpit105</span></strong><strong>:</strong> &#8220;Good enough tech&#8221; Awesome article! <a rel="nofollow" href="http://tinyurl.com/ljsy2c" target="_blank">http://tinyurl.com/ljsy2c</a> (via @<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> @<a href="http://twitter.com/annkur">annkur</a>)</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #993300;">annkur</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> @<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> this is the entire funda behind Wespro and chinese mp3 players.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #008080;">ankeshk</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> hey buddy? hows work and Pune et al?</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #808000;">arpit105</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/annkur">annkur</a> I agree. I wonder what it takes to strike such an opportunity. How do I find one? @<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> Any clues?</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #993300;">annkur</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> @<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> I always put myself as the consumer n see. Bt that can be so wrong as we r power users,visualize the mass market consumer</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #808000;">arpit105</span></strong><strong>: </strong>@<a href="http://twitter.com/annkur">annkur</a> True. Being power users, we tend to think everything is mandatory. So, for which areas/products are we mass-market customers?</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #993300;">annkur</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> thats worth a thought. But todays power user, tomorrows mass market.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #008080;">ankeshk</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> Find any industry. Select the top 1 and 2 product. List their qualities. Come up with the anti-product with opposite qualities.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">@<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> Make sure the anti-product has the potential of a mass market. Or switch the industry&#8230;</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">@<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> Basically &#8211; a co. can distinguish only on price / product features / service / accessibility / overall experience&#8230; (contd)</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">@<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> Dominoes didn&#8217;t go for product differentiation. They went for accessibility differentiation.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">@<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> Starbucks focused on the ambience and the overall experience to distinguish itself</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">@<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> And walmart went for product range and price differentiation</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #808000;">arpit105</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> I differ. If you select top 1/2 products, you may miss the opportunity of trying out a completely new approach. Think Pepsi/Coke</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">@<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> It is not so simple. &#8216;Anti-Products&#8217; may never become market leaders. The point is to satisfy few needs that top products don&#8217;t.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">@<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> Question is: How does one efficiently find out a big enough opportunity of solving such a need? Ethnography is one way. What else?</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #008080;">ankeshk</span></strong><strong>: </strong>@<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> the goal is not becoming market leaders. The goal is creating new markets. No?</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">@<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> With Pepsi/Coke &#8211; you do the anti-product thing. And come up with Vitamin Water. And sell to Coke for $$4Billion.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">@<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> Ethnography and research not really a good way of doing things as Steve Jobs tells us. People dont know what they want.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">@<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> But if you want to start with consumers and not product positioning then this quote helps &#8220;Todays extreme is tomorrows mainstream&#8221;</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #808000;">arpit105</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> No. Creating new markets cannot lead to a market leader. You have to be mainstream-with-a-difference. iPhone is a phone too.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">@<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> Vit Water story may work when the incumbents are desperate enough to buy anything they can&#8217;t kill. Oligopolic markets are not so.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">@<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> Agree. If people knew what the want, product would be already be there in market na? <img src='http://annkur.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">@<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> &#8220;A disruptive technology, often enters at the bottom of the market, Then grow in power and sophistication to eclipse old system&#8221;</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #008080;">ankeshk</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> A disruptive technology is almost always an anti-product technology&#8230; iphone is as anti-nokia as possible&#8230;</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #993300;">annkur</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> @<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> this discussion reminds me of victor maniackam&#8217;s speech at <a title="#ssmum" href="http://twitter.com/search?q=%23ssmum">#ssmum</a>. Remember the bit where he said .. reading a gals mind?</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #008080;">ankeshk</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/annkur">annkur</a> missed that ssmum &#8211; but I agree &#8211; if @<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> can read gals minds he can easily find a few big ass opportunities</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #808000;">arpit105</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> Well, if only I could read girls&#8217; minds!! I read in 10th &#8220;Wherever women are concerned, unpredictable always happens&#8221; <img src='http://annkur.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #993300;">annkur</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> @<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> request your permission to publish this conversation of ours on my blog plz <img src='http://annkur.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #008080;">ankeshk</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/annkur">annkur</a> hahaha sure &#8211; no problem with me. But if @<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> learns to read gals minds &#8211; I want in!</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #008080;">ankeshk</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> I&#8217;m a big fan of Maslowing too. But I&#8217;m at a loss at how to use it to come up with a big opp. The choices are vast&#8230;</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #808000;">arpit105</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> Even I can&#8217;t fathom that. People say that the most innovation occurs when founders are users. How many products can one use?</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #008080;">ankeshk</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> There are more systematic approaches to innovation too. Eg: TRIZ. But users will know more about problems that need solving&#8230;</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #808000;">arpit105</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> I never heard of TRIZ. But this looks interesting. Of course, this doesn&#8217;t solve the problem too. Otherwise we wouldn&#8217;t be discsing</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #993300;">annkur</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> @<a href="http://twitter.com/vivekk">vivekk</a> @<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> tweaking and tweaking until it gets through. No hanuman will come in my dreams and tell what will work</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #808000;">arpit105</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/annkur">annkur</a> Of course, no Hanuman will come. But if tweaking could alone suffice, it would be trivial. Question is: how to shift the paradigm?</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #993300;">annkur</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> oh you need to have some vision and direction to begin with. Dunno how to define that, but you never know where you end up&#8230;</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #808000;">arpit105</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/annkur">annkur</a> Vision and Mission can be about mundane things. Here we are talking about breakthrough innovations, that too ones which work</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #993300;">annkur</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> reminds me of the Paymate guy who got the idea when he had to make a small payment to a friend but had no chq, cash or atm</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #808000;">arpit105</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/annkur">annkur</a> Awesome example! That&#8217;s the thing I am talking about. That&#8217;s the origin of most innovative products. <a title="#ssmum" href="http://twitter.com/search?q=%23ssmum">#ssmum</a> rocks!</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #008080;">ankeshk</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> Oh TRIZ is very interesting. Very technical too. I got a book on it if you wanna read&#8230;</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #808000;">arpit105</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> Is it? Then I would need to read it. It did seem interesting on Wikipedia. Will borrow on thin book from you when we meet.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #008080;">ankeshk</span></strong><strong>: </strong>@<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> you know the story of how Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles was made?</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #808000;">arpit105</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> No I don&#8217;t. Read the Wikipedia entry just now. Not much clues there of anything very deeply interesting.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #008080;">ankeshk</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> The artists asked: which are 4 hot current trends?</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">@<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> 1. Cerebus the aardvark was a cult classic comic of the time. Its about a pig superhero who drinks and cusses.  Misfit animal.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">@<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> 2. Ronin is a hit comic by Frank Miller. Ninja movies do well too.  Ninjas.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">@<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> 3. Daredevil is a hit too. Its about a blind mutant whose other senses are heightened because of radio active exposure. Mutants.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">@<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> 4. The New Mutants is another comic doing very well. Its about teenage mutant super heroes under going training. Teenage. Mutant.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">@<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> Mix the 4 trends. And you have teenage mutant ninja misfit animal undergoing training. Create it and voila &#8211; you have a hit.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">@<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> Mixing already existing hits = recipe for a big hit opportunity too.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #808000;">arpit105</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> Wow! Thanks for so much gyaan. Seems great products are built by deriving from strong social trends/changes + tech to enable it</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">@<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> completely agree. Mixing is origin of innovation. iPhone = touch tech + need for intuitive UI. So what trends are you mixing today?</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #008080;">ankeshk</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> oh my startup is all about mixing 3 ecommerce apps out there right now with 1 more twist. But too early to talk about it in public</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #808000;">arpit105</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> Awesome! Am curious to know! Will discuss in private! <img src='http://annkur.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #008080;">ankeshk</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> (The authors of TMNT did send out 180 PR kits after their first issue too. Hit product needs aggressive marketing to succeed too!)</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #808000;">arpit105</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> Disagree. Disruptive products cause disruptive usage. They would do best through WoM: &#8220;I used it, found it great. Would you try?&#8221;</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">@<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> Landmark Education is an example of a disruptive technology. People who have gone through it, can&#8217;t talk enough about it.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #993300;">annkur</span></strong><strong>: </strong>@<a href="http://twitter.com/ankeshk">ankeshk</a> @<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> WoM cn be backed with some nice media. Making good into Killer!</p>
<p><strong><span style="color: #008080;">ankeshk</span></strong><strong>:</strong> @<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> WoM can totally be hacked. Tipping Point + Made to Stick = WoM. No disruption necessary.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">@<a href="http://twitter.com/arpit105">arpit105</a> Also &#8211; Landmark Education does follow Toastmasters / Tupperware model to add fuel to WoM &#8211; no?</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">@<a href="http://twitter.com/annkur">annkur</a> I think media is an essential element in WoM &#8211; they are still the biggest influencers out there!</p>
<p><span style="color: #888888;"><strong>&#8230;. certainly not the end</strong></span></p>
<blockquote><p>I was left as a mute spectator for most part of the conversation &#8230;. Arpit, Ankesh &#8211; you guyz rock!</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Social Media Revolution #Video</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Aug 2009 16:01:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[To all my friends who keep wondering what is Social Media, And also to all my friends who are Social Media fans&#8230; An amazing video! If you are unable to see the video &#8211; Go Here]]></description>
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<p>And also to all my friends who are Social Media fans&#8230; An amazing video!</p>
<p><object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" width="480" height="295" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" /><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /><param name="src" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/sIFYPQjYhv8&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1&amp;" /><param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /><embed type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="480" height="295" src="http://www.youtube.com/v/sIFYPQjYhv8&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1&amp;" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true"></embed></object></p>
<p>If you are unable to see the video &#8211; <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sIFYPQjYhv8">Go Here</a></p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2009 13:48:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I feel more comfortable talking to strangers than people I know. I believe this is because chances are, I’ll never see them ever again. And I feel like I can say anything I want. They don’t know my past or what I’ve done. They can only judge me on who they are seeing right that [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;">I feel more comfortable talking to strangers than people I know. I believe this is because chances are, I’ll never see them ever again. And I feel like I can say anything I want. They don’t know my past or what I’ve done. They can only judge me on who they are seeing right that second. I’m the person I am now, not then. <strong>People I know don’t see the difference. </strong></p>
<div><a href="http://littlemiss.tumblr.com/post/159620782/i-feel-more-comfortable-talking-to-strangers-than">(Via half-heartedly)</a></div>
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		<title>Poem: Learn with every goodbye</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Learn With Every Goodbye &#8211; Veronica A Shoffstall / Jorge Luis Borges After a while, you learn the subtle difference and between holding a hand and chaining a soul, And you learn that love doesn&#8217;t mean leaning And company doesn&#8217;t mean security, And you begin to learn that kisses aren&#8217;t contracts And presents aren&#8217;t promises, [...]]]></description>
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<p><big>&#8211; </big>Veronica A Shoffstall / Jorge Luis Borges</p>
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<p><big>After a while, you learn the subtle difference </big></p>
<p><big>and between holding a hand and chaining a soul,</big></p>
<p><big>And you learn that love doesn&#8217;t mean leaning</big></p>
<p><big>And company doesn&#8217;t mean security,</big></p>
<p><big>And you begin to learn that kisses aren&#8217;t contracts</big></p>
<p><big>And presents aren&#8217;t promises,</big></p>
<p><big>And you begin to accept your defeats</big></p>
<p><big>With the grace of a woman,</big></p>
<p><big>not the grief of a child,</big></p>
<p><big>And learn to build all your roads on today</big></p>
<p><big>Because tomorrow&#8217;s ground is too uncertain for plans,</big></p>
<p><big>And futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight</big></p>
<p><big>And after a while, you learn That even sunshine burns if you get too much.</big></p>
<p><big>So you plant your own garden</big></p>
<p><big>and decorate your own soul,</big></p>
<p><big>Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.</big></p>
<p><big>And you learn that you really can endure&#8230;</big></p>
<p><big>That you really are strong</big></p>
<p><big>And you really do have worth</big></p>
<p><big>And you learn</big></p>
<p><big>and learn&#8230;</big></p>
<p><big><strong>With every goodbye, you learn.</strong></big></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong><a href="http://oasis.fortunecity.com/bondi/316/Page21.html">Source</a></strong></p>
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