Its difficult to forgive; And I only preach easy things :P. So here is how to be Unforgiving …
- Never tell the other person what wrong he/she did
- Don’t show your anger in words; maintain a distance from the person
- Arrogance will come naturally. Let it be there. Dont speak about it (though it will be obvious)!
- You hurt yourself when you are unforgiving; its natural, dont worry.
- After a while what might make it easy for you is the ignorance you’ll face from the other person
There are different stages and ways of being Unforgiving; depending on what you want. More often then not If you follow the rules I mentioned you will sucessfully be able to break ties forever (become truly unforgiving)!
If you default on these rules; you might end up with a compromise – BEWARE 😀